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Relaxing Versus Exploring Vacations

“I need a vacation.” These words are uttered so frequently during exhausting seasons of life, especially now, in the midst of a pandemic, when very few people are traveling. However, not all vacations are created equal. There are vacations where you want to see and visit everything possible–the kind of vacation that makes you feel like you need a vacation from your vacation, and there are vacations that are relaxing and refreshing on many levels. Understanding what type of vacation you want or need can be beneficial before planning your travel destination and trip details.

Often, when I travel to a new place, I want to see and do everything possible that the destination has to offer. These types of vacations can be extremely fun, but also extremely exhausting. Typically, your destination determines the type of vacation you end up having.

Relaxing vacations

Going to the beach is generally relaxing. Traveling to the mountains is also relaxing. If you feel like you need to go somewhere to get away, relax, and clear your head, destinations like the beach, the mountains, or National Parks are great options. At these places, you can enjoy nature, clear your head, and have no agenda, other than what you decide to do each day.

When you are overwhelmed or feel like you need to recharge, these are the best types of vacations to plan. Camp, roast marshmallow, watch a beautiful sunset, and spend your days doing nothing but enjoying nature. These types of vacations typically leave you feeling refreshed and recharged.

Exploring Vacations

Visiting a big city or a “tourist” destinations would typically fall under the category of an exploring vacation. When you visit a new city, there are so many options of things to do and see: museums to visit and excursions to attend. For example, when you visit Washington, D.C., you can visit the Lincoln Memorial, the Washington Monument, the Capitol, the White House Museum, the Smithsonian Museums and Zoo, Arlington National Cemetery, etc. Visit any travel website and you will find hundreds of suggestions of things to do in Washington, D.C.

The same is true about most major cities. When visiting Orlando, many families view this as a once-in-a-lifetime experience and try to visit all the Disney parks and/or all the Universal parks. Every day is filled with theme park adventures.

Whether you are visiting Washington, D.C., or Orlando, or Boston, or Hollywood, there is often a sense of energy and excitement to visit places that you have previously only heard about and dreamed of visiting. These types of vacations are new and exciting adventures that will be remembered for years to come.

However, these types of vacations are typically exhausting. Long days in the sun at a theme park trigger meltdowns in children. Walking from one destination to the next and the next is also exhausting. There is a time and a place for exploring vacations. If you are wanting to experience new adventures, this is the perfect type of vacation!

The Decision Making Process

It is important to be honest with yourself before planning a vacation. If you have had a long year and just feel like you need a break, planning a relaxing vacation is best. On the other hand, if it is summer, and the kids are going stir-crazy, perhaps an exploring vacation where you get to see and do a lot of unique activities would be better.

In the past, there have been times I needed to relax, unwind, and clear my head where I planned a vacation to a big city, thinking all I needed was a vacation. In these times, I enjoyed the vacation, but arrived back to “real life” without feeling recharged and refreshed.

Understanding that there are different types of vacations that you can plan is important to helping you match your vacation with your present state of mind and personal needs. With that being said, I do know that some people plan vacations a year in advance. Because of this, they are not going to know how they will feel a year in the future. In these situations, it is best to evaluate when your busy or calm times of the year are, and how you typically feel that time of year. Also, in planning a vacation much in advance, consider trying to choose a place that would offer a blend of exploring and relaxing.

Finding Balance

The truth is that most vacations do offer a little of both relaxing and exploring. Sitting and enjoying a meal at a restaurant in a big city is typically a relaxing way to unwind after a long day of exploring. Visiting the closest city to a National Park and exploring all of the facets the park has to offer allows you to explore during a relaxing vacation. Vacations are not all one or the other, but they often are more relaxing or more exploring, depending on your destination.

If you are unsure which type of vacation you will need or if you feel you want to both relax and explore, consider only planning activities for half of your vacation time. Plan to go into the city or do excursions on half the days, and then allow the other half of the days for relaxing by a pool, having a campfire, hanging out at your hotel room or campsite, or clearing your head on top of a mountain, by a body of water, or at some other scenic spot.

It is easy to arrive at a travel destination and want to see and do everything, or to completely detach and do nothing. However, by having a plan of what type of vacation you need before you start your travels, you can be more intentional about ensuring your vacations meets those needs, so that when you return back to “real life,” you do not arrive feeling like you need another vacation because the one you took was fun…but not what you needed.

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How an RV Saved us Money and Headaches

An RV is a big investment. Even used RVs often cost tens of thousands of dollars. Until five years ago, we never even considered purchasing an RV. Before the purchase of our RV, our vacations consisted of two or three trips a year to visit out-of-state family members, and a yearly beach trip with our family. With these trips, we road tripped an average of 12-hours each way to get to our destinations and traveled about once every three months with our four small children.

In 2015, I really don’t know why, but my husband and I began discussing the option of purchasing an RV. We loved traveling and thought traveling in an RV would definitely be more comfortable than cramming our family of six into our car for long trips. After exploring the options, we decided on a Class A RV, which is basically one of the largest RVs you can buy, to fit our large family. We didn’t have a truck suitable for pulling a travel trailer and didn’t like the idea of having to unhook the trailer at every stop, nor did we think a smaller option (Class B or C) would appropriately fit our family, so after consideration, we found an old, but updated, Class A RV.

Even used RVs can be pricey, but because we bought an 15-year-old RV, we were able to get it at a price that fit our family budget, and after purchasing the RV, our vacation costs were cut by more than half.

Advantages

The biggest areas of savings: food and hotels. The conveniences: not having to pack and repack your things, having room to move, and having things to do.

Food

Because we now typically stay in an RV when we travel, we eat more meals in the RV. We have a stove in the RV, and we always travel with a grill, so we frequently make eggs or other elaborate breakfasts before heading out for the day. Lunch is often sack lunches (sandwiches and chips) while we are out and about. Also, because we love grilled food, we often end the day with grilled steaks or chicken. Yes, we still enjoy going out to eat to enjoy local cuisine while we travel, but traveling in our RV limits the need to go out, because with a trip to the grocery store, we can eat camp food that we enjoy, and save ourselves money in the process.

Hotels

An RV prevents us from having the cost of hotels. We basically have a hotel on wheels. Hotel costs are one of the biggest expenses of travel. With an RV, you still have to pay for a campsite at an RV park, and the better RV parks definitely cost more, but even really nice RV parks are typically a quarter to half the price you would pay at a hotel. This equates to thousands of dollars of savings when we travel, as our summer trips often last three or four weeks.

The Convenience of Not Having to Unpack and Repack your Things

Kids have a lot of stuff, and if your kids are anything like mine, they are not necessarily great about keeping things in their suitcases. When we stay in hotels, items often get lost or forgotten; someone inevitably remembers that they lost their favorite small trinket when we are two hours away from the hotel. As a mother, this has been perhaps the biggest joy of having an RV. I no longer worry that we are forgetting things. Everything we need and want stays in our RV, with the exception of outside toys that the kids may play with. There is very little worry that items will be forgotten, nor is there a need to pack up things each morning to continue traveling toward the final destination.

The Convenience of Having Room to Move

Although we do not typically allow our children to walk around the RV when we travel for safety reasons, there is definitely enough room for everyone in the RV. No longer are we squished into a small car together for hours on end. When we travel, everyone has room to spread out: some will sit at the table, others will sit on the couch, and someone will sit in our swivel chair. With all of these areas, there is space to lay down, to play, and to have breaks from one another. Another huge advantage is that we don’t have to stop every time someone is hungry or needs to use the restroom!

The Convenience of Having Things to Do

An RV is like a small home. In our RV, we keep games, books, magazines, toys, coloring books, art activities, a TV, and outdoor toys for the kids. Essentially, it is like traveling with a house on wheels. The RV also has loads of storage space, so all of these items have their own space. Unlike traveling in a car, you do not have to be extremely selective about what you bring when you travel in an RV. The kids don’t have to choose a few toys and a few books to bring, because there is room in our RV for lots of items. We have an entire two door, four-foot long closet to store items the kids want to bring. These items keep the kids entertained when traveling down the road and while hanging out at our campsite. Yes, we still need to be selective because an RV isn’t as big as our house, but traveling is much more enjoyable because the kids are able to bring and access many more of the things that they love.

Disadvantages

However, it is also important to know drawbacks associated with traveling in an RV. As with anything, there are also some disadvantages that should be noted. The drawbacks: gas costs, vehicle size, slower travel, and fighting the wind.

Gas Costs

I need to begin by saying that we have a gas RV, rather than a diesel. When we travel, it is typical for us to get 8 miles a gallon (and sometimes less), especially when driving in mountainous areas. This does become an additional expense on trips because it is about a third of the gas mileage than what we get with our family car.

Vehicle Size

Our RV is 33-feet long. There are certain stops that we skip along the way because we simply cannot fit. As we travel, we have to be careful that we find gas stations that we can easily get in and out of. There are some restaurants that have no parking for RVs, and there are some excursions that we would like to do that simply don’t have RV parking. We could stop and park for the evening at an RV park and spend a day at the excursion. However, because we typically want to get to our final destination, losing a day is not ideal. With a car, it is easy to pull into a place for an hour or two, to explore, and then be on your way. If a destination has RV parking, you can do this on an RV trip as well. However, it is often hard to tell if a place will have room to park an RV, as many places do not advertise it. We have also gotten into situations where we have turned down dead-end streets without realizing it, entered towns there the streets and mountain roads that were not conducive to RVs, and struggled to find a place to get gas or eat because they did not have space for an RV. These situations can be nerve-racking and down-right scary. As you get more experienced, you learn how to avoid these situations, but it is something you need to be intentional about when travel planning with an RV.

Slower Travel

Driving 75 miles an hour, as you would in a car, is typically not possible in an RV. With most RVs, about 60-65 miles an hour is a comfortable highway speed. This equates to less ground covered each hour. Also, with essentially driving a house on wheels, it is more taxing than driving a car. Because of this, we often only drive 6-8 hours a day when traveling in our RV, where we will typically drive 12-14 hours in a car. It seems that without having to stop for meals or the restroom, that you would be able to get places faster. However, this is not usually the case. Trying to keep a 33-foot RV on the road is mentally taxing, plus you still have to stop for the driver to be able to use the restroom and often eat meals (because it is much more difficult to eat while driving in an RV than a car).

Fighting the Wind

An RV is essentially a wall driving down the road. RVs are not wind resistant. Especially when traveling out west where there are few trees to create wind resistance, you feel every wind gust that blows. They hit the side of your RV with a vengeance and make it feel like you are struggling to keep the vehicle on the road; this adds to the already taxing nature of driving a 33-foot vehicle down the road. We have had some scary moments where it literally felt like the wind was going to pick our RV off the ground or blow us off a cliff. Because of this, wise planning is important. We pay attention to wind speeds and try to travel when wind speeds are lowest for the day. This sometimes means that we travel early in the morning, stop somewhere for an outing in the afternoon, and then travel again in the evening.

These drawbacks are not shared as a way of scaring you, but instead, to help you consider both the benefits and the drawbacks of traveling in an RV. For us, having the ability to just hop in and drive, has allowed us to travel and explore places we never would have been able to afford. We never could have paid to travel to Yellowstone, the Badlands, and Mt. Rushmore for three weeks, with the cost of flights for six, hotel costs, and meals out. We also never could have afforded to traveled to Grand Canyon, Zion National Park, and Bryce Canyon for a month. With our RV, when traveling to less populated areas, such as the western United States, we often are able to travel for between $100-$150 a day for our family of six, including food, gas, campsites, and excursions. Traveling to highly populated areas often cost us around $200 a day because campsite prices are higher, we often have to pay for public transportation, and tourist activities/excursions often cost more as well. However, just renting a hotel room for a night costs about what we spend for our entire day’s expenses when traveling in our RV.

For us, purchasing an RV allowed us to plan longer vacations and provided us a way to travel comfortably and affordably to areas we never would have considered visiting with our large family. The hassle of packing and repacking at hotels along the way, as well as the costs of traveling with four children, were a huge deterrent, but once we purchased an RV, loading up and planning month long vacations became a fun summer activity. Forty states and thousands of amazing photos later, we do not regret our decision and have memories to last a lifetime!

10 Ways to Save Money on a Vacation to a City

1.  Try to find as many free excursions as possible.

Most cities have free activities that are enjoyable. By finding free activities to include in your travels, it helps bring down the overall cost of the trip.

2.  Stay at a hotel with a continental breakfast.

Breakfast at restaurants gets pricey. For a family of six, even a cheap breakfast out can cost $50-60 a day. On a ten-day trip, this equates to an extra $500. By staying at a hotel with a continental breakfast, you avoid this expense. Another option is to purchase breakfast foods at a grocery store (if your hotel has a refrigerator) and eat in your room before you start your activities for the day.

3.  Stop at a grocery store to purchase groceries. 

Having groceries in your hotel room cuts down on eating out costs. Not only can you pick up breakfast items or items to make sandwiches, you can also pick up snacks for your stay, as purchasing snacks from vendors is much more expensive than purchasing packaged items at a grocery store.

4.  Try to limit meals out to one per day.

Many families use vacations as an opportunity to eat out. However, eating out costs can become a major expense during travels. If you are wanting to travel economically with a large family, this is one of the best ways to limit costs, while still allowing your family opportunities to enjoy local cuisine. By eating out only once a day rather than three times a day with your family, you can save over $100 a day, which equates to over $1000 for a 10-day trip! This extra money can be used for another trip or for additional excursions and experiences on your current vacation.

5.  Consider eating lunch out, as lunch meals are typically less expensive than dinner.

Although lunch portions are typically a little smaller than dinner portions, lunch prices are often substantially cheaper than dinner prices. Also, when traveling with a family, it is often nice to allow time to wind down in the evening, so lunch, while you are out and about anyway, is the perfect time to eat out.

When we travel, we frequently purchase sandwich items to eat in our hotel room for dinner. After a long day of excursions (often in the heat of summer), we often do not feel extremely hungry at the end of the day, and we look forward to watching TV and unwinding with the kids in our hotel room. Sandwiches and snacks in the hotel are a cheap meal and also provide us this opportunity to relax and unwind before setting out again the next morning.

6.  Research the city transportation schedule.  If the city offers a discount for riding at non-peak times, plan your day to hit those non-peak hours.

Riding city transportation at peak times can be double the cost of riding at non-peak times. This can equate to a substantial amount of money when traveling with a family. By planning your day around non-peak times, you still can have a substantial amount of time to explore the city, while saving money. For example, in Washington, D.C., if you ride the metro after 10:00 a.m. you pay about half price. This allows you time in the morning to relax and enjoy continental breakfast before starting out. Then if you ride the metro back to your hotel after 7:00 p.m, which also was a non-peak time, you again pay about half price. This schedule allows you to save money, while still allowing you nine hours or more to explore the city each day.

7.  Utilize the fresh fruit or refreshments that your hotel offers; they make great snacks and treats throughout the day.

Many hotels have complementary cookies, fresh fruit, or other snacks that they make available for guests. Grabbing one of these items allows you to save money on a snack or treat later in the day. We never use these items as our entire source of snacks when traveling, but sometimes when we are exploring a city in the heat of the day, an apple is a welcome, refreshing snack. Also, the cookies often prove to be a nice treat at the end of a long day.

8.  Consider staying in an inexpensive suite-style hotel to have beds for everyone in your family.

Many budget-friendly hotels are moving away from suite-style rooms, opting for more traditional-style hotel rooms. However, if you can find a hotel that offers a budget-friendly suite, they typically have room to sleep 6–two queen beds and a pull-out couch. Rather than having people sleep on a cot or the floor, this provides a budget-friendly way to have beds for everyone in the family.

9.  Stay outside of the city, as hotel prices are usually substantially cheaper.

Staying downtown can be convenient because you are right in the heart of where you will be vacationing. However, even the cheapest hotels in a city are often three times the price of hotels outside of the city. In addition, hotels located in downtown areas often do not offer continental breakfasts. By staying outside the city, even with the added transportation costs of having to travel into the city, you will typically save a bundle.

10. Create a reasonable budget and stick to it!

It is easy to get carried away on vacation. When you are traveling, all of the excursions sound fun and many people fall into the trap of thinking, “I am going to enjoy this because it may be the only time I ever visit this place.” The problem with this mindset is that it often causes people to go over budget, and then the next time they want to travel, they think about how expensive traveling is and have second thoughts about planning a trip.

By creating and sticking to a budget (or even spending less than your budgeted amount), it often makes you feel that travel is more of an option. Spending less on a trip, often does something in your brain, where it begins to feel like traveling is not that expensive so you can do it more frequently. On the other hand, some people save thousands and thousands of dollars for one trip, creating a massive budget, but this can create a feeling that trips are so expensive that they can only be taken occasionally. By creating a budget that is reasonable and sticking to it, it empowers you to feel that traveling more often is within reach!

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